You may be holding on too tight, trying to make everything perfect. Instead of focussing on the detail engage with the much bigger picture and you may be inspired. Be grateful for the obstacles, they keep you focussed and help you connect with others in a whole new way. Work and responsibility can keep you disciplined, focussed on what has to be done and can stop you overdoing things. Learn to be patient, learn when to wait and when to act. The hero in you will still be there with a fearless centre to be called upon. There will be a moment you can be the hero you were born to be.