You may realise you have become stuck holding onto things and trying to prevent change, just becoming aware of this, gives you the potential to recognise what needs to change and change it. There is the potential today to reinvent yourself in some way. You are agreeable and charming with an inner toughness that ensures you live and behave the way you wish to. Taking responsibility can give you the freedom and true independence you are looking for and help you to achieve success so you can help others.