Despite your planning and your relentless determination, you may have to ‘get real’ about the best way to take care of others. You are very practical, and while you may know that you can’t impose your beliefs on others, not being able to inspire others to think in new ways may cause you deep frustration. If things are not going according to plan, it may be time to transform your thinking. You may find that if you share your insights, the resulting communications could be very positive. It is your intention that counts, so don’t get stuck feeling sorry for yourself, move on. Stay focused and take a deep breathe before responding. Try to put yourself in the driving seat, not taking anything personally and choosing how you respond, rather than have emotion drive you all over the place