You are very protective of all that matters to you and only once your base is secure, do you proceed inexorably towards your target. You can be ruthlessly practical and may feel your actions are just and totally correct but loosen up a bit, truly listen and try to see things as others do You may care very deeply for others and may feel so responsible for the happiness of others that you are giving too much. Perhaps stop and ask yourself, “am I doing this to make me feel better or you?” Reflect also on how ambitious and creative you are and make time to pursue this. All the time you put others before yourself, you may be running on empty with no time for you and the resulting frustration, may mean the words pour out of you. The only way to help others is by helping yourself first … It may be time to give yourself, and others space, then find your spiritual path and stick to it …