You may be determined to get to the bottom of things and can be quite unstoppable. But, in the process you may feel pushed out of your comfort zone and may be surprised by the amount of emotion and re-evaluation that may be required. Be kind to yourself and drop the martyrdom, know you don’t have to be the best every time, you could stand back and let things happen. In the process ideally making more time for fun and less time for judgement.