There may be a decision to be made and you may know deep down that your will power may not be enough. There may be projects that require your full attention, and you may feel you are being asked to go beyond your comfort zone, into new territory. The responsibility you feel towards others and not wanting to let anyone down may open doors for you and keep you going. You can do this without the martyrdom, if you open yourself to the spiritual and try to connect with the bigger picture, potentially moving from your smaller self to your greater self, understanding that you always have a choice. It may help to spend some time re-examining what it is you truly want, as you may be giving too much, trying to make everyone else happy. Try also not to be so blunt in your criticism, instead see your great sensitivity as the great strength it is and take time to develop deep friendships.