There is a danger that you put other people first and give so much that you may have to fight to reclaim your independence. Don’t let the perfectionist side to you mean you feel you have to do everything yourself to ensure it is done ‘properly’. Learn to delegate without worrying. Working with others could help you to rediscover your passion and bring in new ways of working that help you to make your ideas a reality. Otherwise you may remain planning but not taking the action for yourself, but always putting others first. Give yourself space to think in new ways, get past your need for perfection and you may realise just how creative you are.