It is important to you that others know how you feel, but you don’t have to comment on everything, leave some things unsaid. You are very protective towards those you love, but have faith they will do what is right for their life. Let the universe do a little for them and let the universe help you out also.
You don’t have to take responsibility for everything, focus on one step at a time and what makes you happy and you may miraculously find that everyone else is happy.