You may go to great lengths to ensure there is harmony around you and that you are running a ‘tight ship’. You may deny your feelings as you may want to appear ‘in control’, and this may result in more feelings than you know what to do with. If so, self-acceptance and a creative outlet may help you greatly, as they stop you getting stuck in the past and reliving old wounds. Try also not to be so impatient, as the resulting frustrations may mean you are easily influenced, placing your confidence with the wrong people. Try to truly listen to others, even if they are not saying what you want to hear. Drop the martyrdom, instead appreciate, consider, and co-operate with others more, that way there is the possibility of realising your hopes together ….