Month: September 2023

You may go to great lengths to ensure there is harmony around you and that you are running a ‘tight ship’. You may deny your feelings as you may want to appear ‘in control’, and this may result in more feelings than you know what to do with as well as great frustration. If so, self-acceptance and a creative outlet may help you greatly, as they stop you getting stuck in the past and reliving old wounds. Try also to truly listen to others, even if they are not saying what you want to hear. Your fear of failure may have left you feeling exhausted, if so. give yourself space and time for new thinking. Use your true feelings to see clearly in all situations and there is the possibility of realising your hopes, working with others ….

You may feel an intense struggle to be independent and self-confident and may want time on your own to find your own inner strength again. You may find you are quite impractical in your idealism, as well as impatient. The courage to be yourself and to do things in your own way may be important to you, but still allow others to help you. Despite your impractical idealism you may feel forced into action, and this may lead to frustration as you can be quite ruthless about getting what you want. Listen to your inner voice as well as to others, stay true to who you are. Understand that everything evolves in cycles and that you always have a choice in how you respond. Trust life will move you where you are needed and there is the potential for you to achieve the success that matters so much to you, through your creativity and your communication skills, (communicating from the heart to the heart).

Suddenly closing your door to others, leaving the past behind, determined not to reopen past issues, is not always the best way forward. Conflict is sometimes necessary, especially if you want to break through to find freedom and to transform things. You don’t always have to put your suit of armour on to go into battle, in fact your sensitivity is one of your greatest strengths. So, acknowledge just how sensitive you are, know also that you may be holding on too tightly to a structure that has gone. Now may be the time to truly listen to others and allow yourself to think in new ways. You have a choice in how you respond every moment, so allow your generous nature also to come through, reconnect and have fun. Hands-off and let things happen ….

You may be determined to get to the bottom of things and can be quite unstoppable. But, in the process you may feel pushed out of your comfort zone and may be surprised by the amount of emotion and re-evaluation that may be required. Be kind to yourself, know you don’t have to be the best every time and try to be open to new thinking. In the process you may decide to get out of the way so others can come through, ideally making more time for fun and less time for judgement.

You may have an indomitable spirit that doesn’t recognise defeat and you rarely back down from confrontation. Despite this you may also be very patient and steadfast when necessary and your innate fairness normally rules over your very competitive nature. You have your plans as well as a powerful intellect and you may be a perfectionist, who feels very unsettled, wanting security and stability but needing freedom, you may have lots of ideas, but you may doubt yourself. It may be key today that you go into the quiet to keep yourself grounded, focussed, and moving in a direction of your choice as much as possible. To achieve and stay one step ahead, you may have to change how you view some aspects of your past, ideally healing misunderstandings. Gain self-worth also by helping those in front of you, rather than trying to save the world.

Try to master what you do in your own way and in your own time, without being stressed or driven. Recognition is important to you and will come, in the meantime stay focussed, grounded and connected to others. Don’t let the tail wag the dog.

You may have a lot to say and may be very sensitive to any exploitation you witness, but be sympathetic to the feelings of others. Not everyone is as strong willed and directed as you. Working behind the scenes and keeping your opinions to yourself may also help all concerned. Perhaps just for today, let things happen in their own good time and try to ensure the words don’t pour out of you.

Obstacles could wake you up in some way and there may be frustration if things are not going according to your plans. Endurance may be needed but have no doubt that you can turn things around. You may have to ‘get real’ and look at new (ideally easier) ways of doing things, but stay focussed and keep trying, making progress bit by bit. Try also to feel grateful to the obstacles – they keep you grounded, focused, and connected to others, they also mean you are moving forward. Be sensitive to those around you and expect a degree of compromise, but not where your ultimate goals are concerned. You might also be closer than you think to turning things around, so stay focused and try not to be too impatient.

There may be a lot of emotion involved with letting go and this may cause you great frustration, especially if you feel you haven’t delivered all you promised yourself. You may like to be the centre of attention and while others may find ‘your completely different perspective’ amusing you may feel you need a break from this, perhaps focussing more on your private life before taking your dream on again. 

You may have bitten off more than you can chew, if so working with others may also help you greatly, even though they may not understand the depth of your feelings and you may prefer to work on your own. It may be time to moderate your workaholic tendencies and see the lighter side of things. You may also find you can help more people when you communicate your profound truths in a more light-hearted and fun sort of way. This may be difficult as there may be a lot of emotion you find difficult to express and you may feel very sensitive to exploitation you may feel you are witnessing and that everyone else seems ok about. Perhaps focus on finding structure within yourself and your life, that gives you space to express to express your true feelings privately, so you can express them in a more considered way should the opportunity arise in public. Whatever you decide to do, stay connected with your truth and try not to take the behaviour of others personally.