Month: May 2019

You are always pushing yourself and may benefit from giving yourself a break. You have a relentless determination and may be a perfectionist who’s always there for others, possibly turning yourself inside out, trying to make others happy. Be aware that helping others can sometimes be a distraction from looking within. Ask yourself am I doing this to make me feel better or the other person ? Acknowledge just how sensitive you are and look your emotional problems squarely in the eye, soften your hard edges and try to focus on finding peace within. In the process of re-evaluating the structure try to avoid arguments – they are a waste of your energy.

You may be able to see exactly what needs to shift for you to get to where you want to be, but you may also have to ‘get real’ and stay focussed on your goal. Don’t plan, talk and then not take the action, totally believe you can turn things around and go for it. There is the potential for you to truly uplift others with your vision, if you keep your nose to the grindstone, avoid distractions and continue to believe in yourself.

You may feel quite fragile today and may just want to be in the quiet. You may also be impatient and determined to make your ideas a reality, but this may require changes to be made and responsibility to be taken. You may have decisions to make about those you care about and there may be a fear of failure or rejection. Going into the quiet may help you to re-ignite creativity and inspiration and may also help you to connect with the much bigger picture. Outside your comfort zone is all that you desire and going into the quiet may help the way forward to become clear to you.

You may want to express the beauty and to help others to think in new ways and you may have some unconventional ideas that you want to make a reality. You may come across as very confident and self-assured, but may at times care too much. You may have to ask yourself ‘am I doing this to make you feel better or me?’ Not everyone wants to be looked after and not everyone wants to think in new ways. Sometimes the best way to help others is to focus on becoming happy yourself, that way you are less likely to be running on empty and if people ask, you can tell them what works for you.

There may be sensitivity as well as a great need to communicate. You may feel very unsettled, fighting to survive but also determined to make everything perfect, particularly with regard to family relations. You may want to lead the way with the word, acting as a blazing pathfinder, inspiring yourself and others to think in new ways. You may come to realise that while structure and organisation may keep you focused and effective, they can also bring you freedom. So don’t push yourself so hard all of the time, stop the fight and try to ensure the words don’t pour out of you.

Every moment is a new beginning and now is not the time for procrastination, now is the time for action. There may be obstacles and others may be imposing their way of thinking on you, but listen to your inner voice, trust your intuition and go with the flow. You may be waiting for the perfect opportunity or for other people, but may find you are forced to go with the flow. Try to be as adaptable as possible and put your heart and soul into whatever you are doing, that way there is the potential for great synchronicity and you have the potential to turn things around.

You are a fighter and freedom for yourself and others may be central to your world. You may have a driving intensity that gives you an air of great confidence and self-assurance, but there may be emotional turmoil on the inside. You may be focused on taking care of others and you may be brilliant at communication, but try to be less judgemental and more forgiving, you cannot impose your beliefs on others. Recognise the value of being vulnerable and emotionally open. Drama is not always necessary, try to see things as others do, change the way you think and everything can change.

Slow down your pace, you are wearing others out, as well as yourself. Try to be less judgemental and control your tongue, stirring things up at a profound level, to bring about change does not always bring out the best in others and can be very unproductive. Things will work out just fine without you in control, let go of your fear of failure and see the beauty without perfection. Try to see things from the perspective of others, even though this may truly take you out of your comfort zone. Think in new ways and you may find you are amazingly creative, with great breadth if vision, able to inspire yourself and others and able to be a lot more productive.

There may be a struggle to be independent and self-confident and after pushing through powerful barriers to truly be yourself, you may experience some sort of light bulb moment – as if the light suddenly comes in and you somehow know you have the potential to transform things. You have plans and great determination and may find you can now focus on where you want to get to rather than be overwhelmed by the obstacles. The key to this self-realisation may be you truly respecting your life, staying true to who you are and not to being thrown by all that is going on around you. Embrace change even if this may take you into new territory and try to stay connected to a global vision of yourself and the world.

Your way is not always the only way and going with the flow could be very positive for you today, as it may prompt you into action, even if conditions are not perfect. Expectation can cause a great deal of suffering, sometimes it’s about making the best of what is presented to you. You have a wonderful breadth of vision that can see far beyond this and sometimes you can take on too much, feeling it’s all down to you. There is the danger that you don’t always finish what you start, so learn the value of maintenance and sticking with things … big projects take time to build, it’s not just about talk and passion.